How To Avoid Fights

Virtual Mini-Workshop for Couples; From Your Couch, On Your Time

Do you end up in pointless fights with your partner? Do you have conversations that start out calmly, but somehow, without you really knowing how or why, turn into blow-ups? Do you waste a lot of time feeling frustrated and disconnected instead of harmoniously connected and in love?

When fights become a repeating pattern, it saps your hope and enthusiasm, and can put your entire relationship in jeopardy.

You’re trying to communicate something with your partner, but somehow …

  • He takes it personally
  • She interrupts and starts correcting you
  • He gets defensive
  • She feels attacked and brings up disagreements from last month
  • He gets angry and raises his voice
  • You hear the tone and get even more frustrated
  • You end up fighting about who-knows-what

And pretty soon neither of you is really listening and you’re both frustrated. Ugh!

On the bright side, you can rest assured there are SO MANY better ways you can communicate; so many things you can do to change course. Every time you end up fighting, there is actually something useful and positive you’re trying to get across. When you can access the positive that’s “hidden” in the fight, you can deepen your connection and love. This mini-workshop is designed to show you how!

Being able to avoid fights is one of the most valuable relationship skills you could have. We all know how frustrating and exhausting it can be to fight and argue. Keeping your interactions kind and positive is a relationship saver!

In this brand new mini-workshop, we will focus on what you can do in the face of an irritation or altercation to unilaterally turn things around.

You will also learn step-by-step tools to prevent fights and instead connect with awareness and love. You'll practice the tools on the spot with your partner. And you might even find you can add a bit of humor to your fights. All in just 90 minutes.

This is a brand new mini-workshop from LoveWorks:

How To Avoid Fights

In this mini-workshop, you will learn how to:

  • Avoid fights
  • Interrupt fights
  • Shift your mindset from "enemy" to "partner"
  • Go directly for what you want
  • Apply simple tools to communicate more effectively
  • Identify and leverage the positive intent behind fights
  • Use fights to increase your connection (yes, that’s possible).

We’ve helped thousands of couples create fulfilling, empowering, intimate relationships.
We look forward to doing the same for you. 

Cost: $40.00 per couple
When: Anytime you like
Your couch, kitchen table, or bedroom

How it works: Once you register, you'll be sent to the video page. You get comfortable with your partner, hit play, watch the video and do the exercises we guide you through. The video runs about an hour, plus approximately 30 minutes for the activities. You'll be done inside 90 minutes.


Only $40 per couple

© LoveWorks 2021,

About Your Facilitators

Sonika Tinker, MSW, and Christian Pedersen, loving husband-wife team, are Relationship Experts with over 40 years combined experience coaching couples. They are the founders of The LoveWorks Solution, a practical, happy approach to marriage, relationship, intimacy and communication. They are experts at creating a safe space for couples.

Sonika is a Certified NLP Professional, Certified Enneagram Teacher, Certified Mediator and Co-author of Seize Your Opportunities and The Good Divorce. Christian is a Certified Life Coach, Certified Mediator, Mankind Project co-leader in training and author of When You Love Your Woman.