How To Create Win-Win Solutions

Virtual Mini-Workshop for Couples; From Your Couch, On Your Time

We once worked with a couple who couldn’t agree on how to spend money. He wanted to buy a boat for the family. She wanted to start a retirement account. He bought the boat before they agreed. She was predictably pissed and hurt. And they didn’t have enough money to take the boat to the lake! They both fumed.

The importance of creating win-win solutions in a marriage or relationship cannot be overstated. Why? Well, if you don’t …

  • You end up mad at each other
  • You spend tons of time arguing
  • You create “monuments of failure” (like the boat) that keep reminding you of the painful breakdown
  • You can’t move forward together
  • You can’t make decisions about money, kids, time, vacations, you name it.

And even when you get your way, if your partner isn’t happy about it, you now have an unhappy partner who probably won’t let you forget it.

This mini-workshop is a stand-alone Part 2 of our 2-part series, Creating Win-Wins. Both 1 and 2 are stand-alone courses. (Part 1 is about getting on the same page and working as a team, find it here).

Part 2 is about crafting practical win-win solutions that you can both get behind. In other words, when you want A and I want B, what do we do? We’re here to tell you there’s always a win-win available, or something very close.

It’s a given that you’ll disagree about all kinds of things. We believe that in a marriage or serious relationship, your needs and desires are as valid and important as mine, not more, not less. And only when we both get what we want (whether a boat, a baby, more time, or better communication), does our relationship succeed. This mini-workshop will teach you our win-win solutions model, in an easy to follow step-by-step process.

In this brand new mini-workshop, you’ll learn our signature resolution process to create win-win solutions. You’ll get to practice on the spot, with our guidance. All in just 90 minutes.

This is a brand new 90-minute mini-workshop from LoveWorks:

How To Create Win-Win Solutions

In this mini-workshop, you will learn how to:

  • Discover the deeper reason behind your desires
  • Listen to each other’s needs and wants
  • See issues from your partner’s side, and vice versa
  • Work together as a team
  • Create multiple, practical win-win solutions

We’ve helped thousands of couples create fulfilling, empowering, intimate relationships.
We look forward to doing the same for you. 

Cost: $50.00 per couple
When: Anytime you like
Your couch, kitchen table, or bedroom

How it works: Once you register, you'll be sent to the video page. You get comfortable with your partner, hit play, watch the video and do the exercises we guide you through. The video runs about an hour, plus approximately 30 minutes for the activities. You'll be done inside 90 minutes.


NOTE: You can attend Parts 1 and 2 live on Nov 20 and Dec 5, respectively. You will also get the recorded versions to go through on your own afterwards.

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About Your Facilitators

Sonika Tinker, MSW, and Christian Pedersen, loving husband-wife team, are Relationship Experts with over 40 years combined experience coaching couples. They are the founders of The LoveWorks Solution, a practical, happy approach to marriage, relationship, intimacy and communication. They are experts at creating a safe space for couples.

Sonika is a Certified NLP Professional, Certified Enneagram Teacher, Certified Mediator and Co-author of Seize Your Opportunities and The Good Divorce. Christian is a Certified Life Coach, Certified Mediator, Mankind Project co-leader in training and author of When You Love Your Woman.