How To Handle Judgments

Virtual Mini-Workshop for Couples, From Your Couch, On Your Time

Do you ever feel judged by your partner? Do you sense that he’s unfairly pigeon-holing you? Does she tell you flat out that you’re arrogant, selfish, or careless? Judgments are a fact of relationships. As you get close to someone, it’s almost impossible not to make judgments about what is good, bad, right, or wrong.

So what do you do when you feel judged or unjustly accused of some “bad” behavior? Do you …

  • Tell your partner to back off?
  • Explain why she’s wrong in her judgment?
  • Point out the hypocrisy? After all, your partner is no better, right?
  • Try to convince your partner that you are much better than his judgments about you?
  • Counter-attack and point out all your partner’s shortcomings?
My partner is judgmental

Or perhaps you just shut down and try to make it go away, sometimes to the point of losing connection and communication altogether. But it still hurts!

The judgments we have about each other can be used for a good and productive purpose. Even harsh sentiments can be turned around to benefit your own growth as a person and to strengthen your connection and depth as a couple. How? That’s what this mini-workshop will show you.

Being able to handle judgments is a relationship skill you have to master to create harmonious relationships. Not just your romantic relationship with a spouse or partner, but all your relationships.

In this brand new mini-workshop, you’ll learn a reliable step-by-step process for how to handle any judgment in your relationship. We’ll guide you to practice this process so you can embody it and use it later. Heck, you might even discover that you can have some fun with your judgments. All in just 90 minutes.

This is a brand new 90-minute mini-workshop from LoveWorks:

How To Handle Judgments

In this mini-workshop, you will learn how to:

  • Recognize the source of your judgments
  • Use 3 powerful tools to use judgments for good
  • Identify the source of your judgments
  • Why some judgments hurt more than others
  • Immediately diffuse your partner’s judgments of you
  • Use judgments to grow and get closer

We’ve helped thousands of couples create fulfilling, empowering, intimate relationships.
We look forward to doing the same for you. 

Cost: $40.00 per couple
When: Anytime you like
Your couch, kitchen table, or bedroom

How it works: Once you register, you'll be sent directly to the video page. You get comfortable with your partner (or by yourself), hit play, watch the video and do the exercises we guide you through. The video runs approximately 85 minutes, including time for the exercises. Plus, there's a 12-minute bonus Q & A session at the end.


Only $40 per couple

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About Your Facilitators

Sonika Tinker, MSW, and Christian Pedersen, loving husband-wife team, are Relationship Experts with over 40 years combined experience coaching couples. They are the founders of The LoveWorks Solution, a practical, happy approach to marriage, relationship, intimacy and communication. They are experts at creating a safe space for couples.

Sonika is a Certified NLP Professional, Certified Enneagram Teacher, Certified Mediator and Co-author of Seize Your Opportunities and The Good Divorce. Christian is a Certified Life Coach, Certified Mediator, Mankind Project co-leader in training and author of When You Love Your Woman.